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Ineffective Anger Management

If you have been in Real Estate long, especially property management, chances are you have seen holes in the wall caused by an individual with anger management problems. A fellow Minot ND Realtor had to share this picture with me... it kind of tops them all.

Anger PrayerThe plaque is a little hard to read but it says "Lord help me to remember that nothing is going to happen to me today that You and I together can't handle." Obviously this fellow needs God and a psychologist on his team (and maybe a little time in a padded room).

 

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Comment balloon 29 commentsBob "RealMan" Timm • September 28 2018 12:34AM

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Bob "RealMan" Timm Whoever was ramming their head into this wall must have been watching the hearings today on tv....

Posted by Lisa Von Domek, ....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless! (Lisa Von Domek Team) 3 months ago

Good evening Bob "RealMan" Timm,

Hummm..this guy definitely needs to spend some time contemplating his anger issues and get a grip on life.

Posted by Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR, Serving Buyers & Sellers in NW Austin Real Estate (Coldwell Banker United Realtors® ~ 512.750.6899) 3 months ago

LOL Great answer Lisa Von Domek .

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

That's for sure Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR . I wonder if it was him or his wife that tried to fill it in plaster of  paris.

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

Thank you Bob "RealMan" Timm after watching / listening to much of it today...I was ready to throw things into a wall myself! 

Posted by Lisa Von Domek, ....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless! (Lisa Von Domek Team) 3 months ago

They also need lessons on how to patch a wall after they damaged it.

Posted by William Feela, Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No. (WHISPERING PINES REALTY) 3 months ago

Morning Bob.

My wife and I cleaned rentals after the tenants moved out.  I know firsthand how destructive people can be.  Such a pity

Posted by James Dray, Exceptional Agents, Outstanding Results (Fathom Realty AR LLC) 3 months ago

I would hope that was damaged when moving furniture or something, not from fists or feet. However, I'm betting it was the latter.

Posted by Kat Palmiotti, The House Kat (Grand Lux Realty, Monroe NY, 914-419-0270, kat@thehousekat.com) 3 months ago

A "time out" may well be in order for this person !

Posted by Sally K. & David L. Hanson, WI Realtors - Luxury - Divorce (EXP Realty 414-525-0563) 3 months ago

Oh wow, Bob. You're so right, God may need the assistance of a therapist in this case!

Posted by Nina Hollander, Your Charlotte/Ballantyne/Waxhaw/Fort Mill Realtor (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage | Charlotte, NC) 3 months ago

That's for sure William Feela .

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

That is why I sold my last rental James Dray . I had a string of people that had anger problems. It was really disheartening as I was NOT a slumlord, I put a lot of money into that property.

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

They look like fist prints to me Kat Palmiotti but it would be nice if it was an accident.

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

30 days would be good Sally K. & David L. Hanson (in a cement room with bars).

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

Hopefully he/she only strikes walls Nina Hollander .

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

Bob,

I have known people with anger issues.  They hold it in for so long that it explodes all of a sudden,.  Their health is greatly affected by all this also..  A

Posted by Ron and Alexandra Seigel, Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy (Napa Consultants) 3 months ago

A. you certainly don't want to be around when that explosion happens.

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

I think that there was another word he used after God and it started with D.

Posted by Joe Pryor, REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties (The Virtual Real Estate Team) 3 months ago

Bob, luckily, I do not do property management, and do not want to deal with tenants.   We see some holes in resales at times too.

Posted by Joan Cox, Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time (Metro Brokers - House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373) 3 months ago

LOL, that took me a minute Joe Pryor  .

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

Sales usually associated with a divorce I would guess Joan Cox .

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

The agents in an office I once worked often commented that they knew the purpose of a seller selling when they toured the home.  Holes in the wall can be an indicator, especially if those holes are in the master bedroom door.

Posted by Myrl Jeffcoat, Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent (GreatWest Realty) 3 months ago

Yikes, that would be telling Myrl Jeffcoat .

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

Good morning Bob. This is so scary and I wouldn't touch it with a ten foot pole.

Posted by Sheila Anderson, The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133 (Referral Group Incorporated) 3 months ago

There were many scary things I'd scene when I did property management Sheila Anderson . Even worse then this type of anger issue was when I'd see a closet with a door that could be locked and writing on the walls that was obviously done by a child who spent a lot of time in there. I reported those instances to the police when I saw them.

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

A friend buys REO properties and frequesntily sees this type of thing or worse. There is help for those that can't control themselves and are violent.

Posted by Debbie Reynolds, Your Dedicated Clarksville TN Real Estate Agent (Platinum Properties) 3 months ago

Debbie Reynolds the trick is to get them to see that it's "their problem" and not the fault of who ever set them off.

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 3 months ago

As a landlord I've seen fist punches like this, but without the plaque. I honestly believe it's a lack of respect above all else. Lack of respect for themselves, their partner, even other people's property.

Posted by Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty, 601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell (Front Gate Real Estate) 2 months ago

Well said Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty .

Posted by Bob "RealMan" Timm, Bob Timm, Project Coordinator for Tivoli Homes (Tivoli Custom Homes) 2 months ago

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